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How to Win Her Back by Ignoring Her

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So your girlfriend has left you and you want to know how to win her back. You don't really know how you might achieve this goal, so you will probably do what most other men do and go with what is in your heart and mind. Unfortunately this is a sure fire way of pushing your ex girlfriend even further away from you, never mind winning her back. The first that you need to understand is there is a very good chance that you can get your ex girlfriend back, if you follow the right game plan. This plan does not involve standing outside her front door with eyes full of tears. It does not involve ringing her umpteen times a day. It does not involve pleading for another chance and telling her that you have changed. The first step of your plan should be to ignore her completely. Yes you heard that right! You may be asking how you can get her back if you cannot talk to her. The answer to this is that it is not about you talking to her, it is about her deciding to talk to you. Le

Get Out of the Friend Zone - Ignore Her?

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If you need to get out of the friend zone, ignore her or not? You may have heard some people say that you should start ignoring them but most people do not know why this works or if it really does help at all! This article will explain why this piece of information gets circulated and makes sense of it. When you are head over heels in love with a girl who just thinks of you as her friend it can be depressing and frustrating when you want to be more than friends. One of the big mistakes guys make when in this situation is to try to get as close to this girl as possible because 1) They enjoy being near this girl and 2) they believe that if this girl knows them well enough and likes them more they will fall in love with them. Of course, this tactic does not work and so the idea of a friend zone is created. A place that you cannot escape being their friend to becoming their boyfriend. This is where some people tell you to ignore this girl. The theory for most guys is that if you

Why You Should Take Things Slow In Starting A New Relationship

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The one thing many people do when they find their perfect match is to rush things.  This seems to be more common for people that have been alone for some time and are just enthusiastic about having a romantic interest or for people that constantly feel as though they need a companion so that they are not alone. The first thing you will want to do is sit back and have a conversation with yourself about what it is exactly you expect from the relationship.  Do you want a short-term relationship, a long-term relationship without getting married for several years or do you want the relationship to result in marriage? Whatever it is, you need to make a decision and if you haven't already discussed this subject with your new partner, you really should as soon as possible. Sex is the next subject for conversation you will need to have with yourself. You should know that if you are just looking for something short-term then sex early on in the relationship doesn't really seem to

Reasons On Why She Left You For Another Man

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If your girl has left you for another guy, you will probably be suffering from a mixture of hurt pride and loneliness; it will feel strange being single again after being one half of a couple. Here are some tips to help you get over a girl that left you for another guy. If your ex blames you for the breakup, you should seriously think about whether you really were to blame. It could be that your girlfriend's objection to your behaviour was unreasonable, but if you think she was right and the breakup was your fault, now is the time to think about whether you should be doing some things differently. You won't want to repeat the same mistakes in a new relationship, so you need to take an honest look at the things you did that eventually drove your girlfriend away and make an effort to modify any undesirable behaviour. You can't change your personality, and it could be that you and your ex girlfriend were basically not suited. If, on the other hand, you know you have

Important Dating Advice For Men

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Dating advice for men is rare to come across in the print media. Dating for men has become a daunting task, particularly when a man has a demanding career or is experiencing some financial problems. This makes men find it difficult to fine the right women for them. However, most women are aware of these issues and they are willing to go out if they are asked in the right way. There are several important things that men overlook while going for that first date of subsequent date. Here are some of the things that will guarantee a successful date; Appearance   Historically, men are the one considered to be visual beings, but in reality ladies too are visual and what they see influences their final decision about whether they want to be with a man or not. Appearance comes first in any 'dating advice for men' write ups; however few men follow this advice after the first date. The trick here is to be consistent with your elegant look even after the lady accepts to date you.

When She Says She Needs Some Time To Think About Things - What Should I Do?

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Couples get into relationship problems every now and then, and you know what? It's as normal as hearing mom and dad quarreling  and just a moment later, they're saying I love you to each other. Although there are some kinds of problems and issues that doesn't seem to work between the two, that's also normal and yet of course, no one wants to end up like that. One of the common problems with girls is like, when your girlfriend says she needs some time to think about things, doesn't seem like a problem at all but it'll surely drive you nuts if you are in this kind of scenario. Girls are mysterious, they are emotional, but they are also unpredictable. One moment they are smiling, a few minutes later, they are out of control. You have to really be patient with them and you should be 100% serious with your relationship with her or else, you'll quit. There are a lot of common problems with girls which can be tough on the guy's side. But let's tak

The Anxiety of Dating

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When you are scared of dating, your date will always be able to sense it from a distance. This is because fear makes you feel less confident, and you end up feeling unattractive. This automatically makes the other person feel uncomfortable and they are usually quick to reject you. This ultimately becomes a vicious cycle because the greater the number of rejections, the more scared you get. This fear envelopes you and stops you from functioning normally. It impacts the way you speak and the way you move. You become so uptight that you end up saying the wrong things. In many cases people who are afraid turn aggressive just to disguise the fact that they are wary of being rejected. This fear stems from our want to be loved and to want to attract love. However even before trying to be successful, we feel we are going to fail. The fact is we tend to get rejected not because there is anything wrong with us - it is simply the fear of rejection which shows through and causes us to get

Best Things to Do If a Girl is Not Interested in You

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Are you having a hard time getting a girl's attention? Well, if you answered yes, then this is your lucky day! Grabbing her attention and getting her interested in you is actually pretty difficult, especially the hot and gorgeous ones. Then again, there are a couple of ways you can do to speed up the process of attraction and make them want you. Here written are four super effective ways on how to deal with a girl if she is not interested in you. Read on and find out what you can do to address this issue.... o Expect the Worst  - Never expect too much and quit focusing on the outcome. All you will feel is pain and depression if you try to put too much emphasis on the results. Pick yourself up whenever you fall, walk with your head held up high and instead of giving in to the pain, learn from your mistakes. You see, you might not notice this, but every time you stand up after a stumble, you build your confidence and the more confident you become, the more likely girls will se

Dating For Impressing Any Woman Without Trying Too Hard

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I have said it countless times that you are not supposed to impress any woman. Instead you should get a woman to be impressed by you. To be able to do this, follow these five secrets. a)  Don't say cool things alone When most guys meet a girl or a woman the only thing they ever think of is to please her and say things that are nice just to give the woman a good impression about them. But this is not the only thing that you should do. Don't say stupid things but don't be the ever-cool-guy either. b)  Don't be formal I am not saying that you should not comport yourself but by being too formal you are not being yourself and that is not a good idea. Most guys also get nervous and stilted during conversations with a woman but I don't see any reason why. Be confident in yourself. You are a man. c)  Don't try to figure out what she wants to hear Whenever you are having a conversation with a girl, say what you have on your mind and what you have pla

What to Do If a Woman Ignores You

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Believe it or not, ignoring you is a woman's way of being interested in you to some degree, but not wanting to seem desperate. Women just like men first and foremost set out to protect themselves and do not want to give anything away in case they get hurt. If a woman seems very interested in you one night and then doesn't take your phone call for days afterwards and you are confused as to what happened, learn to play the waiting game. Patience is a virtue. Don't call her anymore. If she's ignoring you, she might feel like you are coming on too strong. If you feign disinterest and stop calling, she will begin calling you again immediately. When you do get her on the phone, keep the conversation light and casual do not be over the top. Don't ever let on that you were worried when she didn't call you back right away. Experts say that a woman's least favorite trait in a man is insecurity and dependency. If you freak out and ask her why it took her

Fear of Being Rejected - How to Overcome Rejection

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Was there a time when you were turned down by a girl you really liked? Have you ever experience being left by an ex- girlfriend? Have you ever been ignored by a girl that you have approached? Some people get over these easily, but others end up having a great fear of rejection. The fear of being rejected can cause major psychological issues leaving the rejected broken and distant from people around him. People who fear of being rejected tend to live a lonely life. They choose to be alone because they do not want to go through the same traumatic experience of being rejected. Those who fear of being rejected also tend to become insecure about everything. This defensive attitude protects them from emotional hurt and stress that any possible rejection might bring. Here are things that you need to know to win over your fear of being rejected. Lesson 1: There is nothing to be afraid of but Fear alone Why: Sometimes we are always afraid of just about anything that you can imag