Best Ways to Impress a Girl - Why the Usual Stuff Guys Do to Impress Girls Don't Work

So, how to impress a girl? It's a question that gets asked a lot. Usually I don't like to use the word 'impress' as it puts you in a lower position among the opposite sex.

When I think of a guy who is trying to impress a girl I picture a guy who is basically trying way too hard, one that is showing off in the hopes to win a girl over. It's a very weak and submissive position to be in. While a guy should initiate contact, in no way he should chase after a girl or go overboard with everything he does just to impress her. Girls are not impressed by that.

So my key point is - DON'T try to impress a girl at all. If you ever wondered how to 'impress' a girl, this is it; the best way to impress a girl is not to impress her at all. If this makes no sense here's how this approach work.

Basically you have to stop acting needy and desperate. Don't EVER try to put a girl on a pedestal. Don't appear as the guy who worships her and kneels before her and does EVERYTHING for her just to get that little bit of attention.

If this is your attitude towards women, it could be very likely the main cause for your bad luck with women. Try to have a casual attitude towards women. Perhaps this is still a way to make an impression, you're just going a little different about it, so I will still refer to this approach as a way of impressing girls (yet NOT in a needy, desperate way).

That said, to really impress girls don't be too available or put too much pressure on yourself. Be more of a laid back, cool guy who is just enjoying himself and the company of a girl. If you're looking for proven techniques on how to impress a girl this is by far the best advice I can give you.

Girls normally get hit on several times a day and almost all those men go out of their way to impress girls with all they've got. If you have the same approach as these men you will never succeed with women. To really impress a girl you must be different. You must stand out among other guys.

Usually guys who don't try to impress a girl or those who appear not interested or seem as if they are not trying at all, have the most success with women. This may sound counterintuitive and in fact it is, but within that hides the real secret to great success with women. To impress a girl you must be like one of these guys, a bit stand-offish. You must not be overly expressive about your feelings towards the girl you like either.

One approach that is very effective to impress a girl is the 'friend-approach'. You basically tell a girl you just want to be friends. It works like a charm, especially with the most attractive women.

These girls are used to guys who drool all over them. If you appear as a guy who isn't interested at all, she will definitely notice. Be very selective. She is not used to a guy who acts this way, because secretly it boosts her ego to have every man adore her. If a guy seems not interested it will be a crush on her ego and trust me she will do everything to make him feel otherwise about her.

But to really and completely, utterly impress a girl you must have everything together, the complete package so to speak.

The 'friend-approach' usually works best if you know how to get a girl head over heels and sexually attracted to you FIRST otherwise it will be of little impact. To achieve that your complete game must be tight; the approach, overall interaction etcetera. From start to finish, everything must be super tight. Perhaps, that's the only way to REALLY impress a girl.

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