How To Move On After A Difficult Breakup

Commingling with friends, family, and hang outs after a breakup can be kind of awkward and disturbing. You will feel as if you can't go anywhere or talk to anybody without the weird feeling of the break up looming over your every move. Don't worry this will pass. However, it is very painful.

This period after a breakup is nerve wrecking but with time will be almost laughable. This time is very important for you and your ex to calm down and determine if you should to be together with your ex at all. You may decide you want him back or just want your ex to want you.

I know you don't want to hear this now but it's true. Just think about the last time you were so upset. You probably forgot why you were upset... My point is, the level of pain of breaking up with your ex will hurt less eventually.

Do You Really Want To Break up?

In the middle of a breakup can be very overwhelming, so don't punish yourself by going back to your ex if pressured. Only if you believe that the break up was a mistake. Don't cave in because of the discomfort of the break up. You will shorten the time to heal and enjoy your life after moving on, if you don't get lured in for the wrong reasons.

Take some time and go somewhere to clear your head and not do something you will regret later. However, you may discover you don't want to be without your ex and can clearly see where a mistake was made. Whatever the outcome, you have to take time to see through calm relaxed eyes.

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How To Move On After A Breakup

When getting past a break up you will have to make some adjustments. The gifts and personal belongings may have to be given back or thrown away if they are upsetting. I suggest you placing gifts and pictures in a box out of site for a couple of months until your ready to deal with them without getting upset.

- Stop all contact with ex. No stalking, texting, and unannounced visits.

- If you owe you ex any money or made promises take care of it immediately. You can't move on while you are being harassed.

- Take up a hobby that will keep you distracted and meeting new people.

- Right poetry, music, or write in a journal to express yourself.

- Allow yourself time to grieve privately with a close friend or family member for relief.

- Don't torture yourself with the past. Forgive and move on in order to leave the baggage in the past. If your choice is to break up, then make peace with yourself and your ex in your heart.

Know that your mutual friends and or family may chose who they will hang out with. Don't make friends choose or feel guilty. Just let them know that you don't care to talk about your past relationships and they should respect that decision.

Remember, you may think that this is your breakup, but if you look at your friends and family this is a break up for them too. Don't let this deter you from doing what's right or trying to get your ex to stay for the sake of friends and family.This is not fair to you or your ex.

This process will take time but you like many others will survive. You will be your old secure self again in no time at all. Of course you have to get past the pain now but this is a process. Don't look back go forward and you will begin to move further away from the pain and closer to a new happiness.

Dating After The Breakup

The next time you date you will have new things to talk about from a new perspective of what is right for you. Of course you shouldn't date until you are ready (which may take some time). You don't have to look for a wife or husband now. Just enjoy life and treat people the way you want to be treated.

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